Why We Give Our Daughter a #LifeWellTravelled
She had a head start on a life well travelled, having been born in Hong Kong. It’s one of the things that sets my almost 8-year-old apart from the other kids at school here in the U.S. and she’s darn proud of it. Memories of life rocketing around Central in a stroller, play dates at Ocean Park, and the LRC playground are a blur, but she knows they happened.
The trips we take back to Hong Kong are by far the most meaningful because we have life-long friends there, revisit favorite places and do something new each time. But it’s mostly because they keep her connected to her birthplace, a huge part of her identity.
To be honest, I don’t think we’d return to Asia as often as we do if the journey over and back wasn’t so pleasant. It may sound strange to some, but I do actually look forward to the almost sixteen-hour flight from LAX to HKG on Cathay Pacific. It’s a long time in the air at any age, but the cute kids meals, activity packs and plentiful in-flight entertainment help my daughter pass the time while I catch up on the year’s movies over (much) wine.
My ability to remain chill about flying long haul with her is also due to being thrust out of my comfort zone and on to our first transpacific flight when she was a month old. Multiple trips like this per year made other far-flung trips a piece of cake. Sure, flying solo is even easier but once you get over that initial hurdle the floodgates of opportunity open and no destination seems impossible even with kids in tow.
Lessons From a Life Well Travelled
Her eyes light up when she can link a destination showcased on TV or mentioned in a textbook to a place she’s been to. Luckily, her father (a history major at Harvard) can shed unbelievable insight on to most artifacts, cities and important people throughout the world. And as she gets older we hope the gap between where we go and what she’s studying will tighten.
Every vacation we take is packed with fun, leisure and nice hotels, but there is always something to learn even if it’s a life skill. Traveling sharpens skills like patience and tolerance while it’s certainly kept her sense of adventure alive.
When you travel well, you broaden the mind.” – Cathay Pacific Airways, #LifeWellTravelled
Without the distractions of daily life (housework, errands, work and the like), the truth is that we laugh more together while on vacation. We talk more. We bond more. It’s good for all of us.
What I’ve Learned, Too
Giving your child a life well travelled doesn’t necessarily mean venturing to far away places or missing a lot of school (our daughter is absent 5 days per year for travel). Day trips to museums, a weekend camping trip or a quick exploration of a new city within a short flight or drive can expose kids (and you) to new ideas, new food, new history and much more. We aim to explore more culture close to home, too, over the coming year—something I feel I’ve neglected a bit.
I’ve also learned that a life well travelled means sticking with service providers who can help execute a flawless vacation. Our itineraries feature the same hotel groups and airlines (as you’ll see below) over and over again, whenever possible, because they’ve exceeded our expectations and earned our trust.
Where We’re Headed Next
She packed her suitcase a week early for this next trip. On Sunday, we’re headed back to Hong Kong with a city break in the middle to Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia.
The journey starts on Cathay Pacific, the advocates behind #LifeWellTravelled. I love this campaign because it showcases through stories and social media postings what a life well travelled means to different people around the world. They are my favorite airline for a number of reasons dating back well over a decade now.
We’ll lay our heads at the iconic Mandarin Oriental, Hong Kong. (Did you know that the hotel’s Executive Chef Ewe Opocensky helped design a seasonal Cathay Pacific first class menu?) During our life in Hong Kong this hotel was our social hub from drinks in the Captain’s Bar after work to sourcing my daughter’s first birthday cake from The Cake Shop.
After some airport lounging—the Cathay Pacific lounges at HKG are some of the best I’ve been to—we fly Dragonair (a regional subsidiary of Cathay Pacific) to Kota Kinabalu where we’ll check into the Shangri-la Tanjung Aru Resort. We’ve never been to Borneo and are looking forward to seeing wildlife and visiting our friends.
Our return to Hong Kong involves a stop at Hong Kong Disneyland Resort for two nights to enjoy the park and special experiences like character dining and Disney-themed dim sum. We’ve stayed at the Hong Kong Disneyland Hotel a few times so I thought we’d try Disney’s Hollywood Hotel.
Finally, we check into my daughter’s very first home, Four Seasons Hotel Hong Kong. We were the slightly unusual expats who preferred the convenience of hotel living for the entire six years we were in Hong Kong. It was as awesome as it sounds.
In between, we’ll soak up plenty of culture and eat tons of regional food. You can best follow our journey on Instagram. I’ll be using Cathay Pacific’s #LifeWellTravelled hashtag, too—check it out, the photos posted by other travelers are completely inspiring.
Why do you give your kids a life well travelled?