12 Best Resorts in San Diego for Vacations & Staycations

My picks for best San Diego resorts are for guests who want their vacation needs fulfilled by a wide range of amenities and services without leaving the property. Through my deep knowledge of San Diego hotels and resorts, I’ve used specific criteria to select the true resorts in town that are popular with families, couples, solo, and even business travelers.

Right now, the best resorts in San Diego are receiving a lot of staycation traffic from residents — which I encourage and applaud. All are open with the exception of one.

What Is the Difference Between a Hotel and a Resort?

The line that differentiates hotels and resorts is often blurred, but here is the difference. Resorts offer a more self-contained, relaxing experience and are typically spread across more acreage versus bound tightly by city streets. Resorts have pools with food and drink service, spas, planned guest activities ranging, and multiple dining outlets — more things to do than a typical hotel. Resorts in San Diego, CA are also bordered by golf courses, trails, groves, or beaches, which provide even more opportunities for leisure activities.

Be a VIP Guest! Don’t forget that you can use my Virtuoso and other VIP program benefits to add value to your stay at most of these resorts. VIP guests also receive my four-part San Diego vacation destination email series that is timed to check-in dates and kept updated with what is happening around town seasonally. I may be compensated if you book using the links below.

1. Rancho Valencia

Location: Rancho Santa Fe
Hotel class: Luxury

Surrounded by 45 acres of lush greenery and magnificent olive groves, Mediterranean-inspired Rancho Valencia Resort is an idyllic retreat that many people do not leave. This is the top luxury San Diego resort for world-class hospitality, wellness activities, and opulence. In fact, U.S. News and World Report ranks it as the best resort in California.

This sanctuary boasts 49 spacious Mediterranean-style casitas with private patios and fireplaces where fresh orange juice and a newspaper are delivered each morning.

A highlight is the spa and fitness center which is also home to a stunning yoga pavilion. Class schedules also include high-performance cardio such as spinning and TRX. All are included with guest stays.

Play tennis on one of the championship tennis courts or take advantage of the other sports courts, bocce ball court, croquet or take one of the resort bikes out for a spin. This San Diego resort’s location is also in proximity to some of the most prestigious members-only golf courses in the state.

Relax in the saltwater main pool or adults-only spa pool after a full day in Southern California sunshine. The drive to Del Mar beach takes about 15-20 minutes depending on which beach is your final destination.

And, as the only Relais & Chateaux resort in Southern California, rest assured that the dining is fantastic. From cocktails and rustic American dining in The Pony Room to room service, your taste buds will be exceedingly happy here.

Good to know: It’s for guests who want to be spoiled by true five-star luxury and those looking for wellness retreats. It’s popular for staycations and those within driving distance (Orange County and Los Angeles) who just want a Southern California getaway. You’ll pay a $50/day resort fee.

Make Rancho Valencia reservations with these included Virtuoso Amenities:

*You may need to be on the desktop version of Virtuoso.com to search rates and book online. To enable the desktop version of a hotel page from a mobile device, scroll down to the navy blue section at the bottom of the web page and click “Full Site.” When searching rates, do not input children ages 17 and under as they will be priced as adults. I’m notified when you book and will add them when I contact you about your reservation.

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2. Fairmont Grand Del Mar

Location: East Del Mar
Hotel class: Luxury

The Fairmont Grand Del Mar resort in San Diego is another Mediterranean-style paradise that has earned an exclusive Forbes Fifteen Stars. Its selection of beautiful accommodations includes deluxe villas, spacious rooms, and even adults-only room types surrounding an adults-only pool. All with large marble bathrooms, deep sigh-worthy tubs, and breathtaking garden views.

I think it’s the best resort in San Diego for families who enjoy luxury. You can read more about why families choose Fairmont Grand Del Mar but it’s mostly because it’s win-win for parents and kids.

Enjoy a day at the award-winning spa, yoga classes, or a round of golf on the Tom Fazio-designed course while kids enjoy the year-round, state-of-the-art kids’ club. Book date night at the Michelin-starred Addison. Hit the hiking trails on a bike (the resort has kids’ bikes, too), a guided tour, or horseback — there is an onsite equestrian center as well.

While it is also inland from the beach, guests can reserve beach valet service which will transport you to and from Del Mar’s 18th Street beach (15-minute drive) with umbrellas, beach chairs, and bottled water. Torrey Pines State Beach and Torrey Pines State Natural Reserve are also a short drive away.

Good to know: I think you can tell a lot about a resort by its behind-the-scenes service which is top-notch here. They are excellent at handling dietary restrictions and special requests. The resort experience fee is $49/night plus tax

Make Fairmont Grand Del Mar reservations with these included Virtuoso amenities:

They are offering a 4th night free promotion in 2022 on certain dates. You may need to be logged into Virtuoso.com to see this rate.

*You may need to be on the desktop version of Virtuoso.com to search rates and book online. To enable the desktop version of a hotel page from a mobile device, scroll down to the navy blue section at the bottom of the web page and click “Full Site.” When searching rates, do not input children ages 17 and under as they will be priced as adults. I’m notified when you book and will add them when I contact you about your reservation.

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3. Hotel del Coronado

Location: Coronado
Hotel class: Luxury (with some caveats)

Hotel del Coronado, Curio Collection by Hilton is a historic property that opened in 1888 and has been frequented by U.S. presidents and Hollywood stars since then. I was married at this resort and have been an overnight guest multiple times. Hotel del Coronado is also the most requested and booked San Diego resort or hotel in my portfolio.

The reason is that people search for San Diego beach resorts because they want to take advantage of our sunshine and this one offers the most activities (I highly recommend booking a s’mores roast), waterfront dining, a stunning pool, food and drink service to Del Beach, the city’s best Sunday brunch, and ocean views. You are also within walking distance to other Coronado restaurants and shops.

Winter is also a popular time of year to stay to enjoy their beachfront ice skating rink and a long roster of holiday activities.

You should read my detailed guide to Hotel del Coronado before booking in where I go over how to choose a room across the Victorian, California Cabana, and Ocean Towers buildings, details regarding the ongoing renovation, and everything you need to know about staying there.

I also highly recommend Beach Village at The Del, the resort’s private enclave of cottages and villas, many of which are oceanfront. Beach Village offers an elevated level of service, privacy, and luxury with all of the benefits of staying at Hotel del Coronado. It is the most luxurious resort beach vacation in San Diego.

Good to know: The California Cabana rooms are brand new and priced accordingly. The ocean view fire pit rooms are my favorite but keep in mind that you can always book a beach roast separately. The Victorian building is the most popular because it’s the historic building and the lowest priced (my favorite room is the Victorian Ocean View Studio King Suite).

For more details please read my guide because they are renovating. It’s not a bad choice for travelers who want to go carless. In addition to rideshare apps, the Coronado ferry (on the other side of Coronado) helps guests reach downtown San Diego, Little Italy, and the Gaslamp Quarter. The resort fee at The Del and Beach Village is $35/night plus tax.

Make Hotel del Coronado reservations or Beach Village reservations with these included Virtuoso amenities:

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Tips: The Victorian Building will close for renovation in September 2023. Check the status of Coronado Shoreline ocean swimming as it changes.

*You may need to be on the desktop version of Virtuoso.com to search rates and book online. To enable the desktop version of a hotel page from a mobile device, scroll down to the navy blue section at the bottom of the web page and click “Full Site.” When searching rates, do not input children ages 17 and under as they will be priced as adults. I’m notified when you book and will add them when I contact you about your reservation.

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4. Park Hyatt Aviara Resort, Golf Club and Spa

Location: Carlsbad
Hotel class: Luxury

Park Hyatt Aviara Resort, Golf Club and Spa has just completed a very exciting renovation that makes it solidly one of the best resorts in San Diego. It’s also on my list of best Carlsbad hotels.

One of the most unique aspects is that the generous guest room size allowed them to transform two double bed rooms into two king bed rooms! Single king rooms have double sofa beds for families who don’t need that much bed space.

Also, the family pool area now offers a splash pad and a water slide. If you must have suite accommodations so that you can sleep separately from the kids, they have quite a few nice options.

The award-winning spa is also not-to-be-missed with its indoor solarium and relaxation areas. I also enjoy the dining, especially golf course views at Argyle Steakhouse and poolside from Waters’ Edge. Still, I also appreciate the grab-and-go market in the lobby.

This San Diego resort and spa is ideally situated for a warm and relaxing vacation adjacent to Aviara Golf Club, home to a championship golf course designed by Arnold Palmer, and the Batiquitos Lagoon. It’s less than 10 minutes to the Carlsbad beach and a popular choice for golfers and families who are visiting LEGOLAND California.

Good to know: The rooms are brand new and prices are higher now than they were at the resort before it renovated — which makes sense given what they’ve done. The resort fee is $44/night plus tax. I can book you in with Virtuoso amenities.

Make Park Hyatt Aviara Resort reservations with these included Virtuoso amenities:

*You may need to be on the desktop version of Virtuoso.com to search rates and book online. To enable the desktop version of a hotel page from a mobile device, scroll down to the navy blue section at the bottom of the web page and click “Full Site.” When searching rates, do not input children ages 17 and under as they will be priced as adults. I’m notified when you book and will add them when I contact you about your reservation.

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5. Omni La Costa Resort and Spa

Location: Carlsbad
Hotel class: Moderate

Omni La Costa Resort and Spa’s casual atmosphere is one of the reasons why it makes my list of favorite San Diego family resorts. It’s the only San Diego resort or hotel with a year-round kids’ club that offers a supervised program for kids ages 6 months to 5 years old that will allow parents to rejuvenate with a spa treatment or spend a few hours of alone time together.

The amenities spread out over 400 acres include two golf courses, one of my favorite spas, multiple swimming pools, a kids’ splash pad and water slide area, a tennis center with tennis courts, a state-of-the-art fitness center, multiple restaurants, family activities and much more.

Suites here tend to price well, and the rooms are comfortable. For longer stays or families who need kitchens, look to the villas, which are outfitted with designer appliances and feel like home.

La Costa is a residential neighborhood located in inland Carlsbad, about 10 minutes to the beach.

Good to know: This is a popular resort with fantastic amenities. The rooms are a bit dated, however, and could use some modernization.

Reservations: I used to book Omni La Costa with my extra benefits but I find that people who stay here either book directly using Omni sale rates or through Hotels.com.

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6. San Diego Mission Bay Resort

Location: Mission Bay
Hotel class: Moderate

Formerly the Hilton San Diego Resort and Spa, this rejuvenated Noble House property offers a beachy yet contemporary vibe that caters to travelers who want a more upscale resort experience at a reasonable price point.

San Diego Mission Bay Resort offers games and activities for the whole family from a nice bayside pool with cabana rentals and a kids’ pool to lawn games to a water sports rental facility at the shoreline out in front.

Rooms also received breezy updates in a coastal color palette. Many ground-floor rooms have fire pits where you can roast s’mores (kits are available in lobby market) though they also offer this on the bay beach seasonally. The Mission Bay boardwalk is right out front and nice for bike rides, jogs, and kid fun like rollerskating. You can also relax at the full-service spa or play tennis.

Good to know: This San Diego resort and spa is located just off of the 1-5 freeway which is convenient for sightseeing — you can be at the San Diego Zoo and Balboa Park in about 10 minutes. Know that you’ll have to drive around the bay to reach the ocean beach, however. The resort amenities fee is $32/night plus tax.

San Diego Mission Bay Resort reservations: If you have AAA, book through the San Diego Mission Bay Resort AAA page for the best rate with parking usually included. Or, try Hotels.com.

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7. Hyatt Regency Mission Bay Spa and Marina

Location: Mission Bay
Hotel class: Moderate

Hyatt Regency Mission Bay Spa and Marina is popular because they have the most water slides of any San Diego resort (three). It’s located on Mission Bay, but just a few walkable blocks to the ocean at Mission Beach.

There isn’t a bay beach here, but you can rent stand-up paddleboards and other water sports equipment from the marina, which offers deep-sea fishing and whale watching excursions. City, bay, and ocean views from the top floors and many guest rooms are stunning.

Speaking of the guest rooms, they were recently refreshed. Guests also rate highly the eco-conscious spa treatments at the resort’s Blue Marble Spa and waterfront dining at Red Marlin. The resort’s suites afford beautiful views of the surroundings and include upmarket features, such as Hyatt Grand beds, flat-screen TVs, and private balconies.

Good to know: The resort’s location means that it prices well, and it’s a great value with the benefits below. It’s a moderate resort and a little corporate in feel, but I know quite a few people who choose it for San Diego staycations. The resort fee is $35/night plus tax.

Make Hyatt Regency Mission Bay Spa and Marina reservations: I find that most readers book using Hyatt sale rates or Hotels.com.

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8. Catamaran Resort Hotel and Spa

Location: Pacific Beach
Hotel class: Moderate

Catamaran Resort Hotel and Spa is another sought-after San Diego family resort located on Mission Bay but is also a few short blocks from the ocean at Pacific Beach, giving guests the best of both worlds. Its Polynesian theme, complete with ponds and streams full of turtles, koi, and ducks, makes you feel like you’re on a tropical getaway.

Out front is one of the nicer Mission Bay beaches where you can simply chill on the sand or take advantage of water sports. Bike rentals are available for exploring nearby neighborhoods, too. A game room off of the pool deck is popular with kids. A spa treatment in the full-service spa facility always also hits the spot.

We also quite like the onsite Oceana Coastal Kitchen restaurant for breakfast and seafood favorites. Sit on the patio for water views or inside near the jellyfish tank. Summer guests will want to book the authentic sunset luau on the bay. This seasonal tradition involves Polynesian food, music, and festivities. 

Good to know: This San Diego resort hotel isn’t fancy but it sure is fun. Pacific Beach can skew young demographic-wise but you are insulated from this. The upshot is that the nearby dining is wallet-friendly. The resort fee is $30/night plus tax.

Make Catamaran Resort Hotel reservations: Catamaran offers some good book direct hotel offers and deals. Or, you can check rates on Hotels.com below.

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9. Loews Coronado Bay Resort and Spa

Location: Coronado
Hotel class: Moderate

The goal of Loews Coronado Bay Resort is to make it so that guests can experience the best of San Diego without ever leaving the property. The resort is located about 4 miles from the heart of Coronado Island (but there is a complimentary guest shuttle to downtown Coronado) on its own secluded San Diego Bay peninsula.

The gorgeous Silver Strand State Beach is just a 10-minute or so walk from the lobby, but they have complimentary shuttle service to the sand throughout the day. A seasonal stand sets up complimentary beach chairs and umbrellas for resort guests.

Guest rooms are comfortably outfitted in a coastal palette with bay, pool, or resort views. Speaking of the swimming pool, there are several on the pool deck in addition to outdoor games, and a cafe that serves poolside food and festive drinks. Ingredients are sourced from the onsite garden and citrus trees in addition to local farmers and seafood mongers where possible.

Good to know: It is a secluded location so you will need to drive to outside restaurants and sightseeing. However, this also makes it a good staycation resort for those who just want to unwind. The resort charge is $35/night plus tax.

Make Loews Coronado Bay Resort reservations: Loews direct offers deals or you can try Hotels.com below.

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10. Rancho Bernardo Inn

Location: Rancho Bernardo
Hotel class: Moderate

Rancho Bernardo Inn opened in 1963 as an inn with a golf course and 30 rooms. Today it is very much one of the best resorts in San Diego with 287 casually-elegant and cozy rooms and suites, that very same championship golf course (designed by William bell of Torrey Pines and La Jolla Country Club fame), and one of my favorite spas in San Diego.

It’s full-service with its saline pool, lounging facilities, and spa treatments that use skincare products with edible ingredients — what is more natural than that? You can even enjoy a treatment in an outdoor garden casita.

If you’re going to travel to tee off or use the spa, you should spend the night to take advantage also of the four dining options, including highly-rated Avant’s approachable wine country dining. Or sip a craft cocktail fireside at Veranda.

Rancho Bernardo Inn is a member of Preferred Hotels and Resorts, a hotel and resort group that I trust immensely and use as a stamp of approval when I look to book independent hotels worldwide.

Good to know: This resort is located about 15-minutes from San Diego Zoo Safari Park (this is my guide as we are involved with the park). Family-owned and family-friendly Bernardo Winery, which isn’t just a winery — there are boutiques, a coffee shop, and a restaurant — is also about 5 minutes away. I love this as a San Diego staycation option for residents and a fun weekend getaway for drive-market guests. The resort fee is $29/night plus tax.

Reserve with a Preferred Platinum rate that includes:

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11. Bahia Resort Hotel

Location: Mission Bay
Hotel class: Value

This bayside getaway is situated on a Mission Bay peninsula is renowned for its exceptional service, deluxe suites, and a prime location that allows guests to walk to the Pacific Ocean at Mission Beach from the lobby in about 10 minutes.

Bay and Garden View Studios are newly renovated with amenities like 65″ televisions and kitchenettes. Larger families may enjoy the Bay View Suite with two queen beds and a full-size sofa beds as better value to connecting rooms at other resorts (which can be hard to guarantee).

The secluded bay beach here is pretty much only used by resort guests. Other amenities include a small playground, shuffleboard, water sports, and an arcade.

There are several dining options on-site including an Airstream serving grab-and-go. Karaoke nights are also a regular feature at the resort’s Tangier Bar as a craft cocktails. From June to September, the resort beach comes alive with vibey music, delicious clambakes, and fiery BBQ. Guests use the spa a sister property, Catamaran Resort Hotel and Spa.

Good to know: Of all San Diego hotels and resorts, I like Bahia for those who want a relaxing wallet-friendly vacation near the beach. However, keep in mind that it like the other San Diego beach resorts can price significantly higher during peak dates. The resort fee is $30/night plus tax. Room rates include free parking and WiFi.

Make Bahia Resort Hotel reservations: Book direct or on Hotels.com.

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12. Paradise Point Resort & Spa

Location: Mission Bay
Hotel class: Moderate

Paradise Point Resort & Spa on a 44-acre peninsula on Mission Bay with about a mile of sandy bay beach that wraps around it. It feels a little bit like an island resort.

Added luxuries of Paradise Point include five swimming pools, beach bonfire pits, and a private marina with its various water sports options. The award-winning spa and different dining venues also make for a wonderful stay.

Yes, it is a vast resort, but they offer regular shuttle service from the lobby to various parts though you will park near your accommodations. It’s best for guests who mostly want to stay put as you’ll need to drive to the ocean beach, all sightseeing (other than SeaWorld San Diego), and to the ocean beach.

Good to know: This hotel will gradually transition to a Margaritaville property starting sometime in 2021. I am not sure what it will be like after that just yet. While it is on our list of hotels near SeaWorld San Diego, it will take nearly 25 minutes to walk from the lobby to the park gates (it looks much closer on maps). The water here can be a little stagnant, and none of us swam in it during our last visit. Falling off into it on a SUP or similar is definitely no big deal. The resort fee is $34/night plus tax.

Paradise Point Resort & Spa reservations: Book direct to make a Paradise Point reservation or check rates on Hotels.com below.

Do you have a favorite San Diego resort that is missing from this list?